Ok, I don't know how well I've described it above so I'll have another go just to clarify everything:
The gear stick can't go into 1st, 2nd, 3rd, or reverse. As in I physically can't move the gearstick into those gears, not just that it won't engage if I let the clutch out.
If I leave the gear stick in neutral and let the clutch out, the car moves forwards as if it was in first gear.
With the clutch pedal down I can select 4th and 5th gear with no problems, and if I let the clutch off with either selected then the car will attept to move off but will struggle (as you would expect in such a high gear).
Not sure if that changes the diagnosis?
Cheers for the offer of your manual Bart but I've got one here

I've had a bit of a look through regarding the gearbox trying to get my head around it, and I'm keen to try my hand at fixing it but sometimes it is good to get a few tips from people in the know before you start
